Eight live recorded conversations for people who've read the books, done the work, and are ready to talk about what actually comes next — NRE, jealousy, breakups, and the monogamy withdrawal nobody warned you about.
Save My SpotSpots are first come, first served — episodes are not published publicly for several months.
"Ro's voice has consistently cut through the crowd. Her work is unapologetic and unrelenting. Her commitment to understanding the topics she discusses is unparalleled, and her depth is a breath of fresh air. She thinks out loud the things the world needs to hear."
— Joe Duncan, author of "The Science of Sex," editor of "Sexography," USA
"Elizabeth has a commitment to excellence and making a difference in the world few can rival. Every time I speak to her I learn something new and discover something about myself. She is a bright light in this world."
— Adam Saieed, Entrepreneurial Coach
"When you talk to Elizabeth, it's like talking to a friend who has open ears, open arms, and an open heart. She makes you feel seen. Elizabeth offers such a range of perspectives and she's always open to something new — nothing is off limits, which makes anything possible."
— Michelle H, she/her, Seattle WA
"Ro has a way of making complicated things make sense. She is insightful, empathic, and an excellent active listener who speaks from an honest and compassionate place. She creates a warm and inviting space to explore challenges in a way that feels safe and productive."
— Jay, educator, Germany
Year two, year three, and beyond. No basics, no vocabulary lessons — just the real stuff.
New relationship energy vs. established relationship energy — limerence, insecurities on both sides, and the psychology underneath.
What's actually different between them, and the tradeoffs of leaning on one over another.
The scars non-monogamy leaves behind — and reframing "polyamory is hard" as unrepaired wounds, not a verdict.
The real cost of disclosing — or not — and what it opens up or closes off in your relationships.
It doesn't go away. Knowing your triggers, and doing the work that's actually yours to do.
What's your responsibility, what isn't, and navigating people with different pictures of how this "should" go.
The domino effect on the rest of your polycule, and the pressure to escalate when a partner leaves room.
Hierarchy, couples privilege, the relationship escalator — and the "shoulds" you're still unlearning.
"This series is for people who are already in it — year 2, year 3, and beyond. People who have the language, have done some of the work, and are ready to go deeper than the basics. These are the conversations that don't always happen in beginner spaces, and we're so ready to have them."
Queer, polyamorous, and genuinely obsessed with helping people be fully expressed in who they are and who they love. In the field of gender, sexuality, and relationships since 2011 — starting at a domestic violence center before shifting to coaching in 2017 to work specifically with polyamorous, non-monogamous, and LGBTQIA+ people. Founder of Love Mastery, a certification program for queer and polyamorous coaches. Degrees in Political Science and Women, Gender & Sexuality Studies, holding multiple certifications in coaching and related topics.
Writer, coach, and trainee therapist with a focus on conscious connection, polyamory, relationship anarchy, and personal growth. Specializes in supporting clients to embrace their authenticity and autonomy. Currently studying Transactional Analysis Psychotherapy, trained at the Animas Centre for Coaching, with nearly a decade in adult education before that. In private practice as a psychotherapist and coach.
Register for any or all of the 8 live recordings below — no cost, no catch.
Your link arrives by email as soon as you register. No Zoom account needed to join.
98 spots per recording, first come, first served. Clicking the link at start time locks you in.
These episodes won't be published publicly for several months, and there are no replays. This is the only way to hear them live.
All episodes are 90 minutes. Times shown in Pacific / Eastern / British time.
"My partner and I were stuck in some ongoing conversations, and working with Elizabeth and Ro finally helped us talk through those difficulties and find a much better way to consider each other in our day-to-day life. It was insightful and so much fun — I felt seen with every question I sent in, and so much more equipped for hard conversations with anyone in my life."
— Anonymous Participant
"I tend to clam up and cry in emotional situations and end up scattered. Working with Elizabeth and Ro left me feeling so much more prepared to have conversations that are meaningful and safe, without needing multiple unsuccessful attempts before something actually gets resolved."
— Laurianna, Solo Poly, 52
"I feel confident that I have tools and techniques to have conversations I might have avoided in the past. I loved the way the container was held — you're welcomed and appreciated exactly where you're at. I always loved hearing at the start of the call, 'we are so glad that you are here!'"
— Fletcher W.
"I had just been through a difficult breakup and knew I wasn't communicating well. Elizabeth and Ro have both said they want to help people and make a difference in the world — well, they did. I'm a different person than when I started, in ways my partners have all noticed and are equally impressed by."
— Say the Hard Thing student
No. You don't need a Zoom account to join any of the episodes — just click the link when it arrives.
No — there are no replays, and these episodes won't be published publicly for several months. Live attendance is the only way to catch them for now.
98 spots per recording, first come, first served. Clicking the Zoom link at the start time secures your spot.
Yes — register for as many episodes as you'd like. Each one covers a different topic and stands on its own.
Eight live conversations, one topic at a time, with the people who've been having them for years.
Save My Spot98 spots per episode. No replays. First come, first served.